what is coaching?
In this article, I tell you everything about career and personal development coaching, how it works and what you can expect from your coach.
"HELPING SOMEBODY TO MOVE FROM WHERE THEY ARE TO WHERE THEY WANT TO BE"
The purpose of coaching is to work towards your goals and achieve a change in your life. It usually starts with you thinking that something is not right in your life. It helps you find the solutions to your challenges and move forward.
It is a personal journey of self-discovery. You will learn about yourself, your personality, emotions, thought processes and behaviours.
Coaching focuses on the present and the future, rather than dwelling on the past. You will assess your current situation and define your ideal results.
You can use coaching to:
work through challenges at work
identify your ideal job
build your brand and business
increase your self-confidence and resilience
clarify your purpose and values
support your job search
develop new skills
improve personal and professional relationships
improve your organisation and time management skills
improve your health and fitness
assess your strengths and values
How does coaching work?
The coach will usually offer to work with you over a specific number of session or period of time. The duration of coaching is up to you. You can stop at any time when you feel you’ve reached your goal or if you feel it is not working for you.
Your coaching journey starts by setting your goals and assessing your current situation. You will then clarify what you want to achieve, and how you will do it.
Throughout your journey, the coach will challenge you to explore new ways of thinking. You will look into what’s been stopping you to act. You will be tapping into your intuition, that "gut feeling" that we tend to ignore.
As a result, you will find the solutions yourself and take action.
What does a coach do?
The coach will NOT tell you what to do.
The role of the coach is to listen to you, ask questions and challenge you. It will enable you to establish your goals, explore your self-limiting beliefs and remove inner barriers.
The coach creates a safe non-judgmental space where you can share your thoughts and feelings, explore your behaviour, be authentic and allow your emotions to come to the surface.
The coach has no other agenda than facilitating the change you want. They will not take you where they think you should go. They will keep you focused on your goal throughout the period of change.
What is expected of you?
Here’s what you can do to make the most of your coaching.
Be open and honest – the coach is bound by confidentiality and is not there to judge you, and so feel free to share as much as you want.
Take action – to achieve the change you want, take responsibility for your decisions and actions
Invest your time and energy – be fully present during your coaching sessions, don’t let yourself be distracted by your phone or other worries
Respect your coach’s time – be on time for your sessions and give enough notice when cancelling
WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF COACHING?
There are several types of coaching. What you need will depend on your goal.
Life or personal coaching helps with improving aspects of your personal life. You will be working on your personal goals, such as your personal time management, work-life balance, finance management, etc.
Career or transition coaching focuses on career changes. The coach will provide various tools and techniques to help you find out which career you want to have and how to make it happen.
Business coaching is for entrepreneurs to help them set up their business. It supports them as they build their offer, understand their customers and get to market.
Performance and skills coaching are set in the workplace. It is about improving someone’s productivity at work and developing specific skills (for example presenting, influencing. Executive coaching is for leaders to help them improve their leadership style.
Personal development (or empowerment or confidence) coaching will help you find the courage within yourself to come out of your shell and be your best self.
Relationship or dating coaching focuses on helping others meet the right person and work through their relationships.
Team or group coaching enables a group of people to work through their challenges together, by sharing their experience and coaching each other.
Wellness coaching will help you with your health and fitness goals, by breaking down unhealthy habits and giving you the tools to develop a healthy lifestyle.
And there are many more types out there, such as sales coaching, parenting coaching, youth coaching, sports coaching, etc. Coaches usually offer a few types of coaching to a targeted demographic.
At People at Heart Coaching, I provide life, career and personal development coaching to anyone who feels bored and unhappy in their current professional situation.
COACHING IS NOT ...
Counselling (or therapy), which focuses on understanding and accepting past events.
Mentoring, where you receive advice from a mentor sharing their knowledge and experience.
Training, which gives you knowledge and solutions through a pre-defined agenda.